Subconscious Sabotage: Pushing People Away When You Need Space

Episode 77 September 26, 2025 00:22:51
Subconscious Sabotage: Pushing People Away When You Need Space
J & Courtney's In It Together: Mental Health & Healing Trauma
Subconscious Sabotage: Pushing People Away When You Need Space

Sep 26 2025 | 00:22:51

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Show Notes

 

Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed, craving space, but instead of saying no—you overcommit, explode, or unconsciously push people away? This is the hidden face of subconscious sabotage.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

This conversation is for anyone who feels trapped in the cycle of over-giving, shutting down, or unconsciously pushing people away when all you really needed was to say: I need space right now.

By the end, you’ll see that sabotage isn’t weakness—it’s a signal from your nervous system pointing toward the boundary you’ve been afraid to set.

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